A little about “proving yourself” by Laura Grace
I’ve been praying about why I get so “stressed out” at times, and I realized it usually has to do with trying to “prove myself” in some way. This is so different from just living IN Christ IN the Secret Place, where we know we are beloved and cherished by him! #beloved#Godschosen#jesuslovesyou
It’s like, we know God approves us, he’s working with us on our rough edges and talking to us about areas where we need to press in, work harder at this or that, and along comes a person who thinks or decides, we need to listen to THEM because hey, they know what we should be doing or not doing. #JesusIsLord
It’s not that we should have a bad attitude, like unteachable “renegade” type stuff, but at the same time, I have found I can lose myself in trying to please everyone, and there is a whole lot of opinions out there that sound good (or right) but are not what God is wanting to work on (in our lives) right now. #followjesuschrist
I have decided I want to bless my husband with Good Food, so if he says I didn’t get it right, I will (by my own free will) make adjustments and try to make his food better. HOWEVER if he demanded that of me, made me feel I am not worthy to be his wife unless I can cook just right, well, then we have a problem!
I grew up with a mom that wanted everything cleaned perfectly right, and it was “Perfectionism” that I obeyed because I was her child, and that was the rules. As I got older, I realized my house did not have to be perfect to be okay, and I adjusted to God’s grace on the matter. He isn’t asking for perfect, he isn’t asking me to forsake everything else in life to have “the perfect house” but on the other hand, HE is asking me to be a good steward of what he gave me.
So what happens is, people with a critical eye, who are likely critical of themselves, and do not UNDERSTAND how God really thinks, come a long and tell us how we are not getting it right in some area of our lives, and in doing so, bring discouragement, despair, and become like the people in Galatians who were “cutting in on people” and getting them to run a different race. Not the race of following Jesus, taking on HIS yoke and learning from him, but the endless race of trying to make other people happy, and they never are!!!
Because the truth is, people with rules and opinions that have nothing to do with what GOD is asking of us, wind up being stumbling blocks instead of helping us in our walk with Him.
Come on now! we know the difference between a loving person encouraging us to do it God’s way, (even if it hurts sometimes) and a person who is critically shaking a bony religious finger at us, telling us how we missed the mark, and they are so great and we are so stupid and small. Please don’t tell me to listen to people like that, because I WON”T.
We don’t have to prove ourselves to them!
THE LORD IS MY SHEPHERD! NOT THEM!
They are not the boss! God is! “Help us Father” to stay IN YOU and OF YOU!! AMEN
Help us not to fear those who think they are “all that”. AMEN
John 10:27-28 “no man shall pluck them out of my hand.”








